Reality television opened the gateway for known unknown behind the scenes of the watched lives of athletes, musicians, celebrities, etc. Behind the celebrated names were the women they dated or had children with. One show spawned another as media companies saw the potential capital in capturing the lives of those closely involved with the big names.
So what's wrong with this? Well, we all known now the violence, petty fights and disagreements was not was expected and sent the "quality" of this television programming downhill.What's Evelyn got to do with this? See the way Evelyn's image is set up she is the poster child for what we don't want are daughter to do.
This is what Evelyn represents. Starting young. Getting a job with a sports attorney in presumably in order to meet professional athletes and that is what happened. She went from athlete to atlhete after she began a 10 year relationship with a Chicago Bull. Currently, Evelyn is with child by a pro athlete. She also has a child around the age of 20.
What's wrong is that Evelyn has gotten to where she has capitalizing on her looks and who knows what other tricky behavior in order to stay within the scene of dating only pro athletes. Displaying this on a television show puts this example out there that this is a lifestyle that one might consider if one looks at the material things accumulated from her lifestyle.
At the core of it what does Evelyn leave the audience of all ages with? The impression that using your looks will get you ahead. This is evident with the way her daughter Shaniece is now displaying herself. Her daughter now has a booking email. She's learning about modeling, appearance, and show money. I can only presume Shaneice has always had the example of a mother in pursuit of a marriage that resulted in living very comfortably.
Now what really is wrong with trying any means necessary to get from the projects of New York to anywhere better? I am very aware that there are always two sides of the story. When I look at as a young woman with a child trying to go above and beyond to provide a different life for her child, I can admire Evelyn's determineation, focus, and drive.
What's my personal angst about Evelyn? That I didn't think of her way at all. That I'm a nice person who ends up alone and men go after females out for cash. That I'm left wondering are there any good guys that want a good girl who doesn't need to be in the most expensive this or that.
Do I have a personal problem with Evelyn? I have a problem...some feeling of angst...towards all women who are lucky enough to luck up on men who spend on them. Is it because I haven't found those men? Probably, yes.
